Hi everyone, and welcome to BecomeAwesomeAtOnlineDating.
I started this site when I realized it was possible for most guys (and girls!) to drastically increase the quality of the results they were getting from online dating, while drastically reducing the effort they put into it.
I realized this myself. I had never had a ton of success in online dating. I thought it was defective.
It’s not defective. My approach was defective. As is the approach of 90% of men (and women!) who use the free dating sites.
So I realized that anytime you can spend less time on some activity, whilst simultaneously increase the quality of results, you have a recipe for increasing happiness.
And I’m all about increasing happiness.
BEFORE applying what I’m about to share with you . . .
- More time spent trying to get results on online dating sites
- Less actual results
AFTER applying what you can learn here . . .
- More (and better) actual results
- Less time spent trying to get results
It’s an easy trade-off.
Let’s get all the preliminaries out of the way first. Everything I’m about to share with you has ben pioneered using the dating sites Match.com (paid) and OkCupid (free), but I have also tested it exclusively on OkCupid, and it works just as well there, so you don’t even have to pay for online dating.
Some people will tell you that if you’re serious, you have to pay for online dating. Don’t believe them. It’s just not true.
Are you ready to begin? You’ll need:
- A willingness to learn and put into practice what I suggest
- A free OkCupid profile (and/or Match.com; up to you.)
- An email account
All set? Let’s go!